Battle of the Sexes

There is always something that appears as a big illusion, delusional about our sexes and what they are meant. There is a cliche on it, relationship and the thoughts of men and women, well thats the topic for today! Men and women.

The difference in thoughts is about who gets pregnant. and what about sex? what makes feminism and masculine men? Its a big question with their subheadings yet to appear with even more question you might ever think of. Anyway, First off...

What does sex do?

You get pregnant... only if you're a women. Then women will question, why am I suppose to bear your child? Why do you give me this responsibility? so fort and on... its an expectation that the women would need, that is men should give. Let me talk about it later. So what does he want? what does she want? Easily said, Men wants sex. But why? There is so many reason to it. And what does women wants? its not responsibility could it?

Men wants sex, and women wants commitment.

There is reasons about why the male attractiveness on the female. but the definition is about why people attract to each other? Some sort of magnetic field running across each other? Could be, but still we have to define attraction. When we get attract to something, you would pay attention to it, doesn't mean they are beautiful or ugly, but they just caught your eyes. Depends on which is more attractive, but more people tend to look beauty as more attractive because they prefer positivity, that is why we are so negative all the time, thats why we avoid negativity. It doesn't resonates inside.

The attractiveness towards young healthy people compare to old, ugly women is somewhere in the period of life where they should be occurring, say 20-30 years old in your time-frame, because you just have to be attracted at that time, and married, and have sex to reproduce. That keeps the population and species survive. You can't see two old lions make out in national geography because, they are physically unable to. So why do men gets attracted to women? Its very much pride, self-interest, competition or they are just bound to influence. The movement of men in their assertiveness towards attraction is largely self motivated, more of a thinking motivation comparatively to feelings. Do men love a women because of what they feel? Because men perceive something fits, and should be fit, that would make it fair. Its fair for the men to feel about their love ones because how they experience things together. They interpret that love should be blind, made simple, more fights means long lasting relationship and should be made, in grace! I wouldn't deny it. They picture themselves with their love ones and how it should be, although it didn't turn out that way. The mind set of a man is, you just have to find a women. It was set, and shown in surroundings. Its very much nurture of the bigger population or influence instead.





What does women wants? The culture of population is still the same, women should get a man. A man of her needs and wants. but what do they really need? the responsibility that they would expect to bear will require a form of supportive measure, of cause they wanted men's commitment, but they really need is to feel secure. There is no women would able to live in a insecure world. A single mother would at least find a man (out of relationship) to remind her how she need men's accompany for security. It doesn't matter how strong a women is, but they still need a men. The just need each other. Women who had terrible pass experience with guys will keep thinking about them, either! Either the hatred they harbor about them, its all the culture of others towards others. People tend to be faulty in times of lack of understanding. A children with a drunken father would want to be like their father, or not. Its a matter of decision. Largely people decide about culturing the right thing. Women has this responsibility to raise a child, and oblige to it, after their acceptance. They culture and nurse the world, because you couldn't have a population of hate if all the mothers are loving and care. Compassion is a characteristic that a women should have, what civilization shape is a large factor of wisdom and Love. Religion could be another factor as well.

So how is the systemic program of the general population on men and women? Men are physically superior, women are compassionately superior, but the authority goes to men. The reason is because protection and safety in an insecure world. Its just that the world is insecure and all you have to do is to protect those who you love. The one with the utmost strength will conquer. but when it comes to a women fall in love with a guy, they don't see the competition needed. They wanted to be pursuit, and assert that they guy will win their hearts to promise them security of their future. They could expect turbulence, or more sweet memories, or disastrous husband, but either way they should be asserted with some form of security.

From this authority point it has been bestowed upon men. Contradictive women would wanted to acquire this authority because they tend to go against the current of nature which is disastrous, they either end up in divorce because things gets complicated and when even men try to be different rather than making a difference. Both sexes decision determines the outcome of the relationship, their wants and needs has to comply with what they should do. so what do we make this out?

Men will do most of their time thinking, women will do most of their time feeling. So they are both master of a capability which they earn in the first place.

Men decides, Women motivates. Is how they should work each other, and why they need each other. They could discuss all their needs and wants, all about the bread and butter they could think of. But do they realize that what you should do is to eat the butter spread bread?

Its what people SHOULD do, that makes a difference.

.....to be continue*

20 years of Beautiful memories

One of my friend tell me that it wasn't the bad memories that kept her extremely sad and confuse, patiently waiting for their relationship to work out, but instead its the Sweet memories that is so hard to leave and forget, its too sad to bare with it after. I was wrong to thought bad memories were bad. They weren't.

For the past 20 years, its hasn't been much of a sweet, more of a bitter taste with more pride and joy along the way. Sadness came from inner intentions of, you wanted to be sad on that day as if you decide to be sad out of it. It's more of a friendship and crazy past experience. Can't really tell where to start first.

Living with my mom and dad away for work for the past 10 years is a sense of bearing with the familial distance, which works but doesn't seem that i could last forever. They had to end somewhere and find alternatives, its good that my dad is back now with my mum living like normal parents do. How would you feel if you can't be there with your children and sacrifice yourself for the sake of supporting your children? Thats not normal parents do. Normal parents monitor their son and watch them grow up, my father didn't get much of that chances. I saw much in self-sacrifice for the sake of love.

I have been thought since i was a child to listen to sermons from the priest, listening to a lot of adult talks and figuring out their mindsets (not until now i realize that they keep saying the same thing over and over again) I couldn't help myself but to do whatever I wanted because i have 100% of freedom! Although it is not free in a sense of trials and errors, but they all develop into a decent memories, the one that i need for afterwards. Its a funny bad memories, what i thought!

Then came the lusty memories. Freedom doesn't count much on how badly you are beaten, but how you recovered from it. Like japan, they got freedom and after a big fight, they run faster than anyone else. Lusty as it seems, it makes me wonder why people interact with lust as such. Its an expedition, an exploratory work of the curious mind. Its hard to figure it out anyway, until now.

Its pretty much an experience basis of description above and very much less about my thoughts and thesis but anyway, it serves much for today's post. Anyway, lets get our days started with coffee and some books to read ^^